On a first date, she is going to notice more than the brand of your watch, shoes and sunglasses. Thus, if you are going to try to win her over, your looks and charisma will only take you so far.
Women today know exactly what they want out of life, and the same rules apply to prospective partners as well. Confident and grounded, women will not settle for the second best, and knowing what the best is for women, is crucial for men.
If you thought it was difficult to please women, you thought right. However, dating gurus are aplenty when you need some serious advice on the do’s and don’ts. Here, we give you eight such pointers to ‘groom’ you up before you enter the dating arena:
Looks
Being a drop-dead hunk helps – however, that is only one of the gazillion things that women notice about you. Given the other factors, it might do you no good if you exhibit an unpleasant snobbishness about your physical attributes. In the same way, if you are a regular Joe, it will hardly be taken into account if you are well endowed in other spheres of life.
Clothes
Clothes maketh a man’: how very true this adage is. And implementing it is as tricky. For instance, going overboard in your enthusiastic attempt to impress your date and showing up overdressed and your perfume brand obvious to people 10 feet away – not a good idea. The key is moderation – chic enough to impress and casual enough to portray a comfortable mindset.
Manners
A woman certainly is pleased by courtesy, however being too gentlemanly and not going Dutch may not be appreciated by some women. Chivalry does not go down too well with ladies when they feel smothered by such machismo.